What's your biggest fear? One of
mine is spiders. So how do you overcome your fears? I trained my 2 boys not to
be scared and to safely catch them and pop them back outside (while I hide in
another room doing the good old spider dance).
Here at RSVP dating agencyand singles club, the most common fears I hear are:
- Fear of the unknown,
- Fear of getting back in to the dating game
- Fear of rejection
- Fear of attending a first RSVP singles event.
Bizarrely, one of RSVP’s team of
matchmaking experts recently overcame her fear of cows. Yes, cows. She marched
through a whole field of the mooing creatures while on an RSVP singles walk in Lincolnshire, organised by our events team at head quarters. Huge well
done!
This sparked a conversation with
an RSVP member of ours, attending the same RSVP singles event and supporting
her, who recently overcame his fear of flying by attending an RSVP helicopter
lesson singles activity.
The singles walk (followed by a
Sunday lunch) was actually being hosted by a first time host, another fear
smashed that day.
So, next time you find yourself
wondering if you should attend that first RSVP singles event, you start to feel
the sweaty palms or the faster heartbeat, just remember we are all conquering
fears that others may be unaware of. All RSVP singles events are hosted
and the host is there to help everyone overcome those fears and have a fun
time.
On that first date, take away
the second guessing and pick up the phone to one of our
friendly team of matchmaking experts at RSVP to talk it through; after all, our fears can be
managed if not conquered.
