RSVP Dating and Singles Events members often receive a friendly call from the team to try and persuade
you to come out to our events because we know it is such a great way to meet
potential new partners. For some of our members, the thought of it can be a bit scary
initially. But in our experience, those that get the best from their
membership are the ones that see events as a win:win situation – they may not meet
the “one” - but they are sure to have some fun!
Remember that seemingly unrelated and inconsequential encounters
can have a great significance as you pursue your dreams. You might not meet the
partner of your dreams at your first RSVP singles event - though there are plenty of RSVP success stories where that has happened - but you'll surely make some more friends and
they may know someone who might be just right for you.
In today’s world of
instant gratification and microwave popcorn, we need to take more time to focus
on persistence while we remember that those things that happen easiest or
fastest are often not the best.
So bear in mind, when you are attending RSVP singles events, that you should
make an effort with how you come across to other members. Don't come straight
from the gym or garden. Wear something relaxed but that shows that you have
made an effort.
And keep the conversation light. Avoid politics,
previous relationships or how you felt about matches you've met with RSVP or the length of your RSVP membership and
refrain from any complaints and comments on how your life might be
better. When you are smiling and having a good time, you are much more
attractive to others than when you are venting.
You want to make sure you are really focusing on the positive
outcomes and do your best to push the negative out of your mind. The positive
thoughts will make you much more receptive to experiencing positive feelings. Then
you will start to relax and enjoy yourself.
